
Teaching Kids the Family Emergency Plan
Make sure children know where to meet, who to call, and how to get help — through practice, not lectures.
Question 1
The goal
Every child can recite contacts and meeting places and has practiced them.
Question 2
Materials
- Wallet card with contacts
- Map of neighborhood
- Small backpack 'go bag' per child
- Whistle
Question 3
Substitutes
- Contacts written inside backpack or on shoe tag
- Laminated index card
- Song or rhyme to memorize phone numbers
Where to find it
| Material | Household | Wilderness | Urban / scavenged |
|---|---|---|---|
| Contact card | Index card, tape | Marker on backpack | Print shop lamination |
Question 4
Step by step
- 1
Choose two meeting places: one right outside the home (a mailbox or tree) and one outside the neighborhood (library, relative's house).
- 2
Choose an out-of-area contact — long-distance calls/texts often get through when local lines are jammed.
- 3
Make a wallet card for each child with names, numbers, address, allergies and meeting places.
- 4
Teach children to dial 911 and practice what to say: name, address, what happened.
- 5
Walk to both meeting places together and point out landmarks.
- 6
Run a fire drill: push smoke alarm test button, get low, touch doors for heat, exit, go to meeting spot.
- 7
Pack small go-bags together: water, snack, flashlight, comfort item, extra clothes, card copy.
- 8
Explain the plan calmly and give children jobs (carrying the flashlight, holding the pet leash) — jobs reduce fear.
- 9
Practice twice a year and when kids change schools.
- 10
Find out each school's emergency and pickup plan.
Saved steps go to My Survival Notebook.
Question 5
The science
Under stress, people fall back on practiced routines. Rehearsal builds procedural memory, so kids act instead of freezing.
Question 6
Dangers & limits
- Don't frighten young children with graphic details.
- Update cards when numbers change.
- Make sure kids know never to hide during a fire.
Question 7
How you know it worked
Each child can say the contacts and meeting spots and completes a drill in under 2 minutes.